leave them, but don't forget them then....

I've been left, in several times.
well if it doesn't sound fair, let me say it this way: there were the times when my heart's broken. with different person. some of them were so painful, but some of them weren't heavy as I thought.
but they were in a long time ago. now I've moved on so far, and totally enjoying my life. I leave those memories behind. I don't forget them, I just leave them anyway.

do some memories exist just to be left?

I believe so. not all of our parts of life should be carried with us until we die. or even until we're adult enough. some of them are just meant to happen and then be left. there will a time when you know that that part isn't going to be yours anymore.

so, leave it with no regrets. take all the pain first but trust me you'll pass it anyway. everything's gonna be fine. like many people said, if it's not happy, it's not the ending.

nowadays if I look those pictures that filled with those memories, I just smile. I always confess that in those times, I was happy. very happy (I guess we both were so happy!). I had great moments together. somehow I still can feel how my feeling was. but I see them peacefully. I never regret on anything. never. I really don't care who's right and who's wrong (actually I don't even know and can't decide) in that time, although I felt that I was the broken one. I don't know whether they felt the same or not. I never ask, and I won't.

the past doesn't always have to be forgotten. leave it behind. that is part of your life, forever. you can't change past, can you?

letting go something may be so hard, especially if it felt good for you. it takes time. don't worry because you can. everything is just going to be fine.